foreveraloneness

I have so many things in my mind to write it out. Starting from my own opinion towards the video featuring KFC worker fought with customer, valentine day, my happiest moments, the departure of bf to UK. But I have so little time to write it out. I was busy before bf depausrting. Had heavy classes and test and so little time left for both of us. And now, a week after he departed, I am by with my study stuff. Tension is already in the air. Tests are here and there, not to mention the assignments too. But still it is so hard to get the nerd mode of mine turned on. Haih. This will be another hard sem for me.

I had so many things to write out, but I won't cramp all in here. Lets go by one post to another post. Easier for me to write, easier for you to read lol. And ignore KFC la. Don't think I am going to write about it. The issue is already out of the topic LOL

Now I will have something erm erm that related to Valentine, I guess. Not my valentine, not about how is my valentine celebration, what is my valentine present, no. That, will be at the next post :p I guess. Or there is no post for it, because nothing special happened, really. I know I am a bit late for Valentine related post la. Okay, very late but I am busy! This time I am not lazy, I am really busy LOL >.<

So when Valentine, my Facebook page is flooded with a lot of stuff. Couple posted sweet love message to one they love. Girls, especially posted what they received for Valentine. It is normal, who doesn't like show off with their own pretty stuff and happy life? I like to show off with my new toy too, no big deal. I found them lovely and sweet and perhaps a little too cheesy for those who over-doing it but I am still fine with them.

But still I found very irritating things on my Facebook on the very lovely day. The most annoying thing  are something like this..

..and other gag comic that is similar to this. Forever alone on Valentine day. 

I don't understand why. Most of my Facebook friends are only 20++. First, why you wanna sad if you are single on Valentine day? You are only 20++. Enjoy! Go out there, mix with boys and girls. Single is the best. Enjoy now while you are single. When you start to date, it all changes, even how open-minded your partner is. The commitment as people's girlfriend or boyfriend will be there. Plus you are not single at age of 30 or 40 right? If you are single at that age, yes, please keep whining about forever alone until you get yourself a partner. But if you are only 20++, puh, please. You are too young for commitment. Go enjoy =)

Plus, I don't understand why people nowadays thinks that Valentine is only for couple. I remembered when I was in primary school, I really thought Valentine is for couples, until my teacher taught me that Valentine is not only for dating couple. It is for the family members as well. It is for everyone you loved. It is a day where you spread the love. You don't love your mum, your dad, your sisters or brothers that grew up with you? So, if you are not an orphan, why whining about forever alone on Valentine? You have your family, your friends, the one you loved aside than your future boyfriend or girlfriend. So, forever alone? Think again. You forever alone celebrating Valentine at your university or your mum is the one forever alone in the home waiting for her daughter or son to call her because she missed you so much.

This is funny in a way. But to eat with your mother when Valentine is not funny at all. If you call to your mum on 14/2 to tell her, "Ma, happy valentine day. I love you", can you imagine how happy is she? All the way along, I know when people mention about Valentine day, they will think about loving couples. But you can be the different one. Even my mum, I remembered that she was in shock when I first wished her valentine day. I still remembered that she questioned me about how Valentine is for couples but yet, over the phone, I can still hear her happy voice. Yeah, extra bonus if you are in a relationship and still you remember to call your mum and wish her valentine.

This is not forever alone. I hope my dad wishes me valentine too. Damn he doesn't even remember my birthday. But I guess it is fair enough as he doesn't remembered mum's birthday too. And the quote of "The best way to remember your girl's birthday is by forgetting it once" is fake one. My dad is still safe and sound till now LOL

Spend valentine with your friends will not make you all together alone. You don't love your friends? You all will have happy time together. My friends for example, they celebrated valentine day together last 2 years. Most of the girls in the group are single. There is also one is already attached. So? Still can have fun time together with friends right? I was whining a lot when they left me out in the outing. They thought that I was busy with my bf but I was doing nothing in my room at the Valentine night actually.

Still think that you are forever alone? Nvm, pictures down there are for you. Scroll down =)

Yeah. Who cares about the stupid date when you can just at home and eat cereal. When you go out, you see couple here and there, which remind u more that you are forever alone. When you go restaurant, the meals on promotion is for couple! And you are going alone. So, just stay home. And..

..ahahaha.. the f*** word may spoil my blog but I think it is super cute and true. If you still think that valentine is for couple and you are forever alone, just f*** it. It is another Tuesday anyway haha.. =)

For me, honestly, I think Valentine is just another ordinary day. I don't really care about celebration like this. But since people created the festival, and so many couples are celebrating it, so I just went along with the culture. LOL And since people created it as a day where you spread your love, I really think people shall not spoil it with the foreveraloneness. Except if you are orphan and you really have no one. It shall be the happy day. You don't happy seeing love is all in the air? =)

Valentine supposed to be a day where you spread the love. Be happy =) 

This is not me. She is one of my besties. Since the post is related to Valentine, so I might just post a picture related to it. A love for you all =) 

Sher, I know I didn't ask for your permission ahead for this. I can remove it down if you are not happy with it =)

p/s : I had been thinking and thinking on whether to post this up or not. It is more to my personal opinion towards the foreveralone vs valentine. It may offend people who posted about their foreveralone during Valentine but people, you have your own reason and opinion to post about your foreveralone and I had my own reasoning about my dislike towards the foreveralone thingy during Valentine. People do have different mindset and opinions ya. And for the 9GAG comic, don't be offended too. I like 9gag, it brings so much happiness and laughter to me whenever I browse my Facebook. They are all cute but it is just the foreveraloneness that I did not favor.
No harsh feeling, cheers =)